Sunday, January 30, 2011

Daybook Entry



Outside my window
Dark and cool.  I am enjoying some quiet time all to myself.  
Currently reading
Gosh !  Lots of library books for Sophia.  That's the first thing that came to my mind !  She has me carrying armloads of books home from the public library this week.  She is really enjoying having me read the stories to her...and is showing such a great interest in them (and in learning to read too)!
Me?  I've really got to carve some time out to read more.  I was always an avid reader.  A bookworm of sorts.  One of my favorite places to go was the bookstore.  I don't get there often and when I do, I usually spend my time replacing all of the books that my son takes off of the shelves (which is what I do at the library too, come to think of it).  Having kids greatly changes things.  But I do wish I could find the time to read more.  I have even thought of getting a Kindle; maybe something  "new and different" that would sort of spark and force me to find the time to read.
I recently picked up the book by Fr. John of Kronstadt again...as "life" interrupted me the first time I tried to read it.  
I am thankful
for a wonderful and faithful friend....who had enough LOVE for me to challenge my COMPLETE FAITH in GOD in most difficult aspects of my life.  
From the kitchen
Well, "kinda" from my kitchen...but really from my Mac - is a new recipe program/app.  YUMMYSOUP!  I have really been struggling to find a convenient way to organize most of my recipes. Books, papers, cards, bookmarked websites, etc...just a mess.  I decided to give it a try since it was 50% off when the Mac App store opened up.  I love it !  It is so easy to use (aren't all things Mac?) and pleasing to the eye as well.  I am still migrating everything over in my "spare" time.  
I am thinking
about my Uncle who is in need of a bone marrow transplant. 

I am listening to
my husband rip the coupons out of the paper....grocery shopping day is tomorrow !  
I am creating
fun, accessible, playful rooms for my children.  It's funny because when they were "smaller", everything in their room was OUT OF REACH.  Cute little knick-knacks, glass frames, all sorts of senseless decor...beautifully placed out of reach.  More for the adults to look at really.  Now, I am constantly moving things around or adding things to make their room more "child-friendly".  They both have little desks/tables to draw (and plenty of washable crayons for Demetri), little reading nooks, play kitchens, mirrors at their height.  I am sure I will get used to it, but everytime I walked through their rooms today I would catch a glimpse of only my KNEES in the mirrors !  Fun stuff !  
A few plans for the rest of the week
Plans !  ha !  I'm not sure why I bother but we do have some sketchy plans laid out.  Playtime with a friend, storytime at the library, exercise and play at the Y, gymnastics class, Liturgy, pitching lesson appointments....and preparing for a little roadtrip. We depart Friday morning.  So, no plans - but a very busy week of course !

Beauty in the home/Around the house
I am not sure it is noticeable yet, but i have been attempting to de-clutter some more around the house.  My father has installed shelves in our hall/coat closet so that I can use it for storage instead of coats !   It is working out great and now I am moving on to other areas of the house to organize and utilize my new space.  On a daily basis, I have been trying to have the kids help me straighten the living area and kitchen so that at least ONE part of the house feels peaceful upon entering.  I'm sure there is nothing worse for my husband than walking through the front door after work and seeing a chaotic mess.  I remember my own mother would say that if the kitchen was neat and orderly than it gave a certain peace to the home.  She was right.  Our kitchen when I was growing up was large and the center of our house, so if it was a mess then the whole place seemed disorderly.  
The Domestic Church
The children are participating more and more in our morning prayers and it is becoming a nice time of our day.  It started out were I would just have them in the room while I prayed, as long as they were quiet they could sit on the bed or read a book, etc.  I don't really even think I noticed as things changed, it just seamlessly started to all come together.  They "read" their own prayers and chant, ask me to pray for certain people, venerate the icons, etc.  I try to keep the time we are together there relatively short, as they are only 4 and 2...but sometimes I don't realize it and they are still with me and I have finished an entire Akathist to the Mother of God in addition to our morning prayers.  (Don't get me wrong, there are many times I am chasing them into the kitchen to bring them back in my room...but we need to celebrate the positive, right?)  We have also provided them with icons that are hung on the wall at THEIR  height in our room.  I really think this has helped them participate more.  Even at non-specific times during the day I can find one of them in there doing metanoia and venerating the Icons.  What a blessing. Glory to God for all things.  

In the garden
Sophia and I have been talking about what we are going to plant this year...she has her own ideas, of course.  I plan to keep it simple again, very similar to last year.  It was a great experience for all of us - but I am not sure we are ready to expand anytime soon.  We also do not have any more areas that get enough sun for a full garden.  We will need to clean out our gardening box and get the necessary items.  
One of my favorite things
I love sitting on the couch with the children at night, reading them stories.  
Sophia
The little lady has been going to gymnasics for a few months now and just loves it.  I am so glad that she has found something that she really enjoys.  She goes to her class once per week and starts asking me "how many more days?" the very next morning after class.  
Demetrios
My little man is getting "so big".  He is now in a toddler bed, as we have decided to get rid of his crib.  It has been almost a month and it is going fairly well.  He has to be returned to his room a few times per night...but it's getting better. Well, last night WASN'T better - but I am going to chalk that up to the fact that he just wasn't tired enough to sleep.  I think he came out of his room 85 times in a 3 hour time period.  I couldn't even keep my eyes open anymore so eventually he just slept with me anyway.  
Picture though to share




Monday, January 24, 2011

BE THE MATCH

My uncle has been diagnosed with MDS (a type of blood cancer).  The chemotherapy is not working at this point so he needs a bone marrow transplant. My mother is his only sibling and was thought to be his best chance for a match.  We have recently learned that her screening came back and she is not close enough to be a match for a transplant.   For a moment, this took the wind out of our sails.  But my sweet and strong Uncle is continuing the fight, thanks be to God.  


Sloan Kettering is looking through the registry for potential bone marrow donors.  I registered tonight.  If you register, they will send you a "kit" for you to perform a simple mouth swab.  If it looks like you could possibly be a potential donor, they would follow up with a blood test.   If the blood test is positive, then you would either be a peripheral stem cell donor (just a simple blood draw) or bone marrow donor (which is outpatient, but done under anesthesia and they collect liquid marrow with a needle into your pelvic bone).   

If it is in your heart  to register, go to BE THE MATCH  By doing so,  you will actually be in the registry for all of those in need, not only my Uncle.   After the testing,  you can change your mind at any time and take your name off the registry.  If you do register, you can choose to send me your registry # and his Doctor can specifically check to see if you're a match for my Uncle.  Anyone could be a possible match, but because race and ethnicity play a good role in this, the best match would be someone from northern European background (Ireland, Germany, Scandinavia, etc.).  To register you must be between 18-60 years of age and in good health.  The website above has a lot of good information and should answer any of your questions.  



"With God all things are possible".

Friday, January 7, 2011

Epiphany 2011



A Blessed Theophany to all - as we celebrate the Baptism of our Lord Jesus Christ !  Unfortunately, I have been home with my sick children for a few days and we were unable to attend Divine Liturgy or the traditional dive for the Cross.  Thankfully, the children were able to see some of it via television/computer and my Yiayia brought us home the Ayiasmos (Holy Water).

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Baby, it's (too) warm outside....



While I think it got a little too warm today (for January), the kids did get to enjoy some fun outdoors !  First thing they did was ride their bikes up and down the driveway.




Sophia had been asking me for "the hairy things" that she saw on the bikes in Target (streamers) - so I found a pair for her Christmas stocking.  She loved how they were blowing in the breeze today.  Demetri doesn't quite go fast enough yet on his bike, but he does have a little airplane on his handlebars (and one day that propeller WILL spin)!

(Usually, whenever we are out riding the bikes there is at least one person who stops to ask us WHAT kind of bikes the kids are riding !  Sophia has a Kinderbike and Demetri has a Strider bike.  They are balance bikes (aka running bikes).  They are widely used in other countries and just really gaining some popularity here, although obviously not very mainstream.  The concept is that the child learns balance and confidence on a two week bike and goes from this to a regular pedal bike (no need for tricycles or training wheels)!  I think they are great and the kids seem to really like them and feel comfortable on them !  Needless to say, most of my family think I'm a little bizarre and "bikes with no pedals" really gave them something to laugh at).  

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Finally catching up...

Christmas Eve


Christmas has come and gone and I have not had (or haven't FOUND) a minute to sit down and type an entry !  That's a good thing though...we've been very busy here and enjoying lots of family time.

a little fun family football...Demetri is the one-man defensive line




I'm sure that with young children every year Christmas will be a little different.  This year, it was wonderful for me to see Sophia beginning to really grasp the understanding of Christmas - as the Birth of Christ.   I loved hearing her tell people about St. Nicholas.  I chuckled every time Demetri would randomly say to someone "Jesus is born".  It is a struggle to keep a 4 year old focused on the true meaning of the Feast when she is surrounded by flying reindeer, santa decorations, and talking snowmen !  Last year, I found it much easier.  This year, I was almost feeling a bit defeated when a dear friend of mine called me (at just the right time) to give me some hope that it gets easier !  That my struggle to teach her will overcome all of the propaganda out there if I stay the course.  I am so thankful for that mom-to-mom conversation.  (Thank you Presvytera)!  I felt stronger and renewed.  So, this year was a fun time for me !  We enjoyed the Church services and spent some fun-filled days with my family to celebrate.  By the time the Feast for St. Stefanos came around, we were EXHAUSTED, tired of overeating and the house was a wreck ! !

....and then Sophia asks "What's next?"

Today we celebrated the Feast of St. Basil and celebrated my sweet husbands nameday !  Of course, we also rang in the New Year and pray that this year is filled with many Blessings !
Sophia and Baba walking into Church on the Feast of Ayios Vasilios

....and of course tomorrow Sophia will ask me "What's next?"

(maybe I should make tomorrow the Official "Move all of your new toys out of the living room and  into YOUR OWN ROOM day" !)
Playing with her new kitchen set